We all have dreams and plans, along with a general idea of how we think things ought to go in our life. We all know that there are times when life takes a different turn than we had hoped. We may see our retirement account melting away under the current adverse market, we may find our job being dissolved, when we are past the age of easy job finding, or we may get a jolting diagnosis from the doctor, just when we thought we were beginning to get control of some things. On and on the list could go, but the truth is, there are times when we face great disappointment.
First, to rebound from disappointment, we must accept completely that God knows and cares about our situation. He did not cause adversity in our life. Jesus came to give us life, and that more abundantly. It is the devil, who is the thief who has come to steal, kill, and destroy. We live in a sin-cursed world, and bad things do happen. It may very well be that we have made some bad choices, and the adversity in our life has come as a result of those choices. I remember one man who was in the hospital with lung cancer, after a lifetime of smoking, and he looked at me and said, “I know the Lord will not put more on you than you can stand.” Well, the Lord did not put that on him. He put it on himself by direct disobedience to the teachings of God’s word, concerning how we are to care for our physical bodies. Yet, in spite of bad doings, God is good, and His mercy endures forever. Even when we have done it to ourselves, God loves us and can be touched with the feelings of our infirmities.
We also need to understand that God’s blessing is attained by meditating on the word of God, the Bible. We must know it before we can meditate on it, but most people know enough to meditate on. To be blessed is to be inwardly happy. Not a superficial happiness, but a deep knowledge that everything is alright, because God is in control. To be blessed is the God-given ability to live in the exceeding great and precious promises of God. Disappointment melts quickly away in the light of the promises of God.